Do You Know Your Truth?
We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. --Joseph Campbell One evening, back in college, a friend and I decided to take a break from...
View ArticleMyths of Power-with # 4: When Connection Trumps Everything
In my previous piece in this mini-series, I made a connection between power and needs, suggesting that the quintessential flavor of power-with approaches rests on attending to ever more needs of ever...
View ArticleBelief In God Supports Prejudice Against Gays And Atheists
Even though religions preach love of humanity, decades of psychological research have linked religiousness with prejudice. In recent times, certain types of prejudice, particularly racism, have become...
View ArticleThe Old Age of Psychology
Human populations across the world are changing. They are becoming older, both in terms of the number of older adults and in terms of how many older adults there are to the younger population. Such...
View Article1950's Birthparents and Lost Loves: Some Similarities
With 40% of babies in the United States currently being born to single mothers, it's easy to forget how much of a stigma it was to get pregnant "out of wedlock" in the 1950's. Birth control pills...
View ArticleDoomed to be Married? 5 Reasons Wise People Worry
Hang out with a few wise women or men and it doesn’t take long for the discussion to turn to how disappointingly matrimaniacal our entire society has become. Weddings, couples, marriage – everyone...
View ArticleCulturability: The Next Big Thing In Web Design
Whatever you do online - whether you run a business, keep a blog or curate a community - if you want to do it well, there are three things you absolutely need to pin down: 3 Secrets to Online Success...
View ArticleLong-distance Mothering
I am tired of the so-called Mommy wars - the battle between mothers who have paid employment outside the home and women whose primary place of work is inside the domestic sphere. There really is no...
View ArticlePowerful Dreams
I am a frequent and vivid dreamer. Perhaps this is natural, but it may also be connected to having kept a ‘dream diary’ while in my twenties. On waking, I would recall and record as much as possible of...
View ArticleHow to Improve Body Image: The Three D's
Thanks to society’s obsession with food, diets, and narrow definition of beauty, many individuals are at war with their bodies and sweating to lose weight this summer. Improve positive body image with...
View ArticleInstead of Sweating Over Weight Loss This Summer
The hottest days of the year are approaching faster than any quick weight-loss program can promise to melt away the pounds you resolved to lose January 1st. Does the thought of wearing revealing summer...
View ArticleMonthly Meditations to Invite Eroticism (June)
At Center for Healthy Sex, we find inspiration from many sources to treat sex addiction, love addiction, and sexual dysfunction. Meditation and affirmations are helpful tools that build esteem, create...
View ArticleSix Thoughts On Beauty
Hold what is beautiful andbring the sun to your heart. Open your ears,there is beauty to be heard. Open your eyes,there is beauty to be seen. Open your heart,there is beauty to be felt. Walk properly...
View ArticleWhat's Your Vacation Personality?
We all know that vacations are supposed to provide the prototypical “R and R” of rest and relaxation. However, not everyone is able to get the most out of their vacation experiences. Although we tend...
View ArticleLooking for an Escape? The Impulse to Run Away from It All
I was bummed out and burned out. After a prolonged period of job stress, I was relieved to have something to look forward to: a few hours to explore the American Southwest on the day before an academic...
View ArticleAn Exercise-Meditation Smackdown
We’ve all read the flood of articles singing the praises of the positive effects of physical exercise and meditation on brain functions. You see them all the time. But did you ever wonder if exercise...
View ArticleA Thought about "Cougars"
With experience she became the huntress of her most feared enemy. Her strategy is particular; she only goes out alone, like a stealthy warrior. Not a fan of the typical chase, she relies on the element...
View ArticleLiving the Big Picture
Psychology looks at individuals and couples, families, small groups and larger groups. It comes in all flavors from behavioral to contemplative and everything in between. Lots of people get lots of...
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